AG: James Paulino arrested for taking woman to the jungle and forcing her to perform oral sex


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  • 1. How do you grab a vagina?
    2. How does a vagina hurt for 1-2 whole days? (You would have to be a virgin)
    Exam the man’s hands, fingers. He would have to have large hands and or fingers.
    3. How was V.J. not able to physically get the vehicle door to open first time and was able to get it open to only” spit out his semen”.
    Somethings are not sitting right w/ V.J. Statement.

    • Victim shaming is [one of the many reasons] why women are afraid to speak up after being sexually assaulted…which is exactly what you are doing.

      It’s clear that you have never been sexually assaulted, which you ought to be thankful for.

      Here are the answers to your questions:

      1. The same way someone would grab another person’s butt.

      2. Being a virgin isn’t the only reason why a vagina would hurt days after [digital] penetration. The victim stated that she was dry—the friction very likely cause irritation to the lining of the canal; hence the pain…also: When you become aroused, your vagina produces lubricating fluid, blood rushes to your vulva and vaginal walls, and your vagina expands. All of this helps get your vagina ready for penetration.
      When you aren’t aroused enough, “any attempt at penetration can lead to tightening of the vaginal muscle due tension, pain, or burning in the vagina,” Levine says. These tightening muscles can leave you feeling sore after sex. YES—even DIGITAL penetration can cause this.

      3. Do you not understand the body’s “flight or fight” response?? Can you imagine being taken to a secluded area by a man—your employer, even—forcefully telling you that you had to perform oral sex. This is a man that hold the power of positional authority over her. It works the same way with a father sexually assaulting his OWN child.
      Also, in the midst of sexual assault, the brain’s fear circuitry dominates. The prefrontal cortex can be severely impaired, and all that’s left may be reflexes and habits.
      Freezing is absolutely a response to danger.

      Please read this article and EDUCATE YOURSELF:

      https://evawintl.org/wp-content/uploads/Hopper-2015-Why-Many-Rape-Victims-Dont-Fight-or-Yell-Washington-Post.pdf

      3. Again, flight or flight response. Please read the article and educate yourself. Also, the perpetrator said: “we can go when I’m finished.”
      He finished, and therefore allowing her to finally open the door.

      It’s very easy to say that “things don’t add up” when it comes to sexual assault…but unless you have been in a similar situation, then you DO NOT know, nor can you ever understand why a victim did or didn’t do whatever it is you think they should have done.

      I speak from personal experience.
      I was propositioned for sex by someone I thought to be a good friend (he was drunk during this time, so I was helping him to get home).
      I refused many times, but he continued to kiss me and touch me despite my attempts to avoid his lips and remove his hands from my body.
      The more I refused, the more aggressive he got. He pushed me onto the bed and forcefully pinned my arms down. My body shut down the moment he pushed me onto the bed. He got on top of me and started undoing his pants. He even reached over to grab a condom and put it on. Now, many would probably say: “YoU cOuLd HaVe GoTtEn AwAy WhEn He WaS pUtTiNg On ThE cOnDoM.”

      NO. I COULD NOT.
      I COULD NOT MOVE.
      I COULD NO LONGER SAY ANYTHING. MY BODY WAS FROZEN WITH FEAR.
      The only thing I was able to do was turn my head to the side and cry.

      STOP VICTIM SHAMING.
      Stop defending and protecting these predators.

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